The Meaning of LIFE!

1. I watched this movie today with my mom and brother today. There are a few things I wished to share here...

2. Is MONEY & FAME really important?
There are many things to learn from in this movie. The movie showed how Andy Lau (Jeneral) who has MONEY, STATUS & FAME regretted very much for causing the death of his daughter and later he repent and change his life to serve the people.

3. Remember friends... MONEY, POSITION, STATUS & FAME are never going to last forever, they are just there temporarily. They act as a tool for mankind in this given life only.

4. The question in everyone's mind should be 'how would an individual uses these tools to benefit others?' Things would work out greatly if everyone does that...

5. When a person finds peace in his thoughts and in his soul for trusting in GOD, he or she will experience meaningful events where money can't buy. These are the experience that would last a lifetime, and it's going to be eternal as GOD will recognised that contribution.

6. Besides, the movie also teaches us to appreciate people who care about us... In ancient times whereby family has to wait for a long period of time for their other beloved family members to come home from war/business/exploration. Some did came back and some didnt! It sad to see loved ones not returning home for months and years.

7. Today, we are lucky. The moment we miss each other, we could always contact each other instantaneously. Sometimes, we take things for granted and not realising how lucky we are.

8. Pray that our soul is at peace, and we be always cheerful appreciating one another and embracing life together lovingly.

Food for thought everyone!

Back to blogging!

Hello readers,

It is me here... I have decided to start blogging again so friends, students and public could have a piece of sharing of my thought about life & success, and about my journey to financial freedom too.

It feels really nice to share my knowledge and experience with others. Of course, do give me feedback for check and balance purpose LOL:)

Feel free to ask me questions, would be glad to answer them if I could!

Hopefully I have the support of everyone (particularly family members, friends and someone very important to me) in my journey to financial freedom. My dream would be to set up my own foundation to help the poor and needy. I am aware of the forthcoming challenges, it is not going to be an easy journey but like what some people say, THE BITTER THE STRUGGLE, THE SWEETER THE REWARDS WOULD BE!

Have a fun time everyone, more sharings to come soon!

Happy SOUL!

1. I just came back from a contemporary stage show titled 'Madworld' featuring dance choreography, drama and music at DUMC (Damansara Utama Methodist Church).

2. What does it profit a man who gains the whole world but loses his very soul? This is what the show is all about.

3. This show started with a lovely young little girl as an angel hoping to bring awareness to people out there who only know how to make profit, partying and having fun whereby others are suffering. There is a bad guy in that show that always make a fun at that little young angel that she is dreaming. The world is selfish, the world only cares about war and making a fortune without benefiting others. A good example would be Christmas, many only knows how to party and have fun without knowing the real meaning of Christmas, they just do not bother about those who are suffering in pain, those who are begging for food, those in the hospital etc.

4. I agreed very much with it.

5. In economics, we learnt about 'distribution of resources'. In reality, do you really think there is free and fair distribution of income and other resources? The rich gets richer where the poor gets poorer.

6. Therefore, it's only right if those who are fortunate to have the capability to strive for success ie monetary to donate or help those unfortunate ones. With this that person soul shall be with joy.

7. Those who are lucky to be in a relationship, please appreciate and take good care of each other. See the good in a person and not judge him or her based on wealth, position, status etc. What is the point if a man who is very rich but slaps and beats his wife? The man soul is not with joy and happiness. Poor thing to the wife too.

8. The future is in our hands... Especially to youth out there, better not waste time on unneccessary matters. It is best if one uses his or her fullest potential to benefit others.

9. Isn't it wonderful to be financially secure and make a difference in others lives? Family would not quarrel over money matters, other unfortunate ones will be able to benefit from your help, the world be at peace and everyone is happy. Isn't that better than watching movies in cinema, partying and singing karaoke without learning and applying everything from it?

10. Having good personality, dignity, responsibility and most importantly TRUST in the LORD & GOD and surrender everything to GOD! What I want in my span of life is a legacy, a legacy that would benefit others and bring joy and meaningful experience to them.

11. Of course it would be a blessing if I have my family, wife and friends support along this challenging journey of realising dreams. It would be of great joy if I could travel the journey with YOU!

12. BEST OF LUCK MY FRIENDS:)

The Meaning of LOVE

What LOVE really is? Hmm... A person willing to honor words and promises shared and sacrifice for another person. Give me an example of a TRULY LOVING COUPLE:

1) Mahathir and Siti Hasmah

Through tough and challenging times, they go through together as couple... Siti Hasmah always be by her husband side to give him support and take good care of him.

2) Anwar and Wan Azizah

Anwar's wife always standing and supporting her husband when her husband was in jail, and now the court case... She needs to take good care of her childrens, family and political party etc. She sacrificed everything without questioning her husband because she TRULY LOVES him very much!

3) Lim Guan Eng & wife

When Lim Guan Eng was in jail, again the wife be visiting him in jail and taking care of the children. She always make sure the family is in good care so her husband could venture his dream of transformaing Malaysia politcal culture.

That's what I mean by HONORING WORDS SAID & WILLING TO SACRIFICE FOR THE ONE YOU LOVE...

What they go through is really HARDSHIP, we are talking about the husband going to jail, being back stabbed by harsh words, life in danger etc... We are not talking about minor test, but major ones... and what really amazed and makes me feel admire is = THEY ARE WILLING TO GO THROUGH ALL CHALLENGES TOGETHER AS A COUPLE...

Of course they argued and quarreled many times, but give and take is key to any relationship. They make sure they be alright at the end:)

To me...

THAT IS WHAT LOVE IS ALL ABOUT... LOVE is not only those sweet words said during happy and sweet moments, but going through difficulties whether between them or external together... It is to see how far one is willing to sacrifice for another... that takes DEEP LOVE for it...

To me, that is the MEANING OF LOVE:)~^^

You Shall Not Commit Adultery!

Why is GOD against adultery?

1. It breaks the most intimate of all human relationships (Gen. 2:24, 25).

As a loving couple, both hug/kiss/naked to enhance their love with each other. The couple felt no SHAME in doing so cause there is LOVE. And the LOVE here is only permitted to BOTH male and female as a COUPLE, not involving others!

2. It causes one to lose faith and trust in the other (Mal. 2:14)

When a relationship breaks down, it causes an effect to society. It breaks people's TRUST & BELIEF to other party.

3. It produces hurt, anger, bitterness and hatred. (cf. Gen. 39:19)

These are against the nature of healthy life. Life should be full of happiness and love. Those that cause hurt, anger, bitterness and hatred are not contributing to healthy living. Think about it!

4. Vows and words are no longer taken seriously. (Mt. 5:33-37; cf. Heb. 6:13,14)

What's the meaning of life when people do not believe one another words? It's like living life without a purpose. Life is meaningful when we honour our words, and people believe us in doing so!

Consequences of such an action:

1. Every move or plan of the spouse/gf/bf is under suspect because trust is lost

2. Both the feeling and the mind are now dramatically affected.

3. Children suffer enormously and unjustly.

Purpose of such a commandment

1. The gf & bf/marriage relationship must be treated with the highest regard (Heb. 13:4)

2. Friends/children/generation to come shall grow up with trust and respect and they will also take such a relationship in future seriously themselves.

3. That the sins of the parents are not passed on to their childen (Ex. 20:5)

4. Adultery is not just only commited in the physical act but it can also be in the mind and heart as well (Mt. 5: 27,28)

"You have heard that it was said, 'Do not commit adultery.' But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart (Mt. 5:27,28)

Tips for Healthy Relationship!

1) Truth = Tell no lies and believe each other

2) Transparency = Both could have a look at each other hp, laptop etc... nothing to hide

3) Time = Spend time with each other, the best would be at least once a week

Reasons for the 3'T

1) Truth = Both will believe and trust each other as a loving couple, both have faith that each wont cheat the other... so even if the girl go out with a guy friend, the bf/husband has nothing to worry about cause deep in his heart, he knows his gf/wife will not cheat on him!

2) Transparency = Both have confidence with their relationship. Both won't suspect each other when there is an incoming sms, call etc... Nothing to hide for that loving couple!

3) Time = Both able to treasure time spent with each other, and enhance the love bond relationship as a loving couple!

Conclusion

A PEACE OF MIND & HEART

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A LOVING/MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIP

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A HEALTHY LIFE

Gaining Momentum!

It's been a while since I wrote something here... Are u fine today? Wish you are readers...

Would say I am rather disappointed about myself, it's been a while since graduating from University and I have yet to be on track for something BIG, GREAT & MEANINGFUL! The word 'MOMENTUM' is what this guy needs now...

Played futsal game with fellow colleagues in the evening, would say that I played badly... My stamina sucks, gone are the days of being fit and able to last for the whole game. It's becoming worst thanks for not exercising for 5-6months.




Would say that the biggest struggle for me now is to balance my life really well. To do that, I gotta be POSITIVE. With that mindset, improvement in every important aspect of my life shall be realised.

It takes a lot of effort to 'GAIN MOMENTUM' and to be on track. I would say it's a matter of time to achieve that but I better get started to make that a reality. Till then, that's the life I am dreaming of...

A CHAMPION will NEVER QUIT... SHALL GO ALL OUT & CHASE THAT DREAM OF MINE!

SMILE :) :) :)

I AM ON THE MOVE RIGHT NOW FOLKS!

CHEERS,

~HAVE A NICE DAY~^^

Promise & Trust

Promise & Trust are interesting elements and something very wonderful, however it could be very fragile at the same time.

Parents trust their children for the promises made, and would therefore give them freedom to have fun with friends.

The same goes to a couple too... Both are in a relationship because both want to explore and experience life together, both want to share everything with their partner, both want to be together forever. Promises are made and both trust each other very much.

With that trust, both are 'attached' together, like a knot tied with each other little fingers (sounds familiar).

Things could be very sweet at the beginning, and it shall be challenging as time passes... The couple relationship will be put to test then... At that very moment, it's to see how both really love each other, and whether both are willing to uphold each other principle and honour all promises made, compromising comes in too.

If both really uphold all promises made, there is nothing that could separate them apart.

No matter how difficult things could be, everything could be solved if both really love each other and most importantly honour all promises made.

Responsibility comes in for the entire process, if one is responsible; surely one will behave well and respect the other partner. Things would work well this way. For example, behave well with other girls so the special one will not feel threaten etc... Of course, the same goes to the girl as well, to behave well with other guys.

It definitely takes more than LOVE in a relationship, it takes many sacrifices and many care for the one we love!

That's what TRUE LOVE is all about.

And lastly, I just want to look into your eyes and SINCERELY telling you this:

I LOVE YOU!

I REALLY DO!