Promise & Trust

Promise & Trust are interesting elements and something very wonderful, however it could be very fragile at the same time.

Parents trust their children for the promises made, and would therefore give them freedom to have fun with friends.

The same goes to a couple too... Both are in a relationship because both want to explore and experience life together, both want to share everything with their partner, both want to be together forever. Promises are made and both trust each other very much.

With that trust, both are 'attached' together, like a knot tied with each other little fingers (sounds familiar).

Things could be very sweet at the beginning, and it shall be challenging as time passes... The couple relationship will be put to test then... At that very moment, it's to see how both really love each other, and whether both are willing to uphold each other principle and honour all promises made, compromising comes in too.

If both really uphold all promises made, there is nothing that could separate them apart.

No matter how difficult things could be, everything could be solved if both really love each other and most importantly honour all promises made.

Responsibility comes in for the entire process, if one is responsible; surely one will behave well and respect the other partner. Things would work well this way. For example, behave well with other girls so the special one will not feel threaten etc... Of course, the same goes to the girl as well, to behave well with other guys.

It definitely takes more than LOVE in a relationship, it takes many sacrifices and many care for the one we love!

That's what TRUE LOVE is all about.

And lastly, I just want to look into your eyes and SINCERELY telling you this:

I LOVE YOU!

I REALLY DO!

What love really is?

'A moment like this,

Some people wait a lifetime,

For a moment like this,

Some people search forever,

For that one special kiss.

Ohh, I can't believe it's happening to me,

Some people wait a lifetime,

For a moment like this'

Well, guess the lyrics from the song 'A Moment Like This' by Leona Lewis explains it all. The special moment shared between two lovers is something so meaningful and is to be remembered forever with love!

Guess gentlemen does exist in this world these days, though the number may be little, but I certainly have high respect for them. They are the ones who really sacrifice their love towards the girl they love most.

Sometimes, I feel it's better not to go all out and get the person u love very much! It's better to give the girl freedom to make choices. Yes, I agree it will be a risk, because the girl may choose others that show more actions.

Well, it's worth it to take this risk simply because I feel a person actions are not to be judged by a short period only, it should be based on the long period. GUess it will only be a GOOD LOVE when a guy treats the girl well all these while, and not only to a short period when the guy sees an opportunity to win over her heart.

It will be a ROMANTIC LOVE if the girl chooses you because she really loves you, and not based on other factors like wealth, status etc... Giving a girl freedom to make choices actually gives her time to make a good decision, so she won't regret later. If a guy really loves her, surely he wants her to live happily ever after rite? and for her to realize her princess dream, and to make her fairy tale dreams she believed since a little girl to be a reality.

That is what I called LOVE...

A guy who really cares for her,

who is willing to sacrifice anything for her,

to be there whenever she feels sad,

to make her feel that she is the luckiest girl of all,

that treasures all moments shared with her since the 1st day they knew each other,

and most importantly,

a guy who gives her a kiss wholeheartedly...

Responsibility!

Just came back from Johor for CHing Ming. I missed Ching Ming last Sunday because I have weekend classes last week, so yea...I have no excuse to skip Ching Ming this week since it's always MEANINGFUL to pay respect to my ancestors and dear ones!

I am more of a person who goes back to the basics of life. I wouldn't have been around in this wonderful world without my ancestors. Besides, it's also a sign of appreciation to my dear ones who have passed away, it's also an appreciation towards their love & care they showerd upon me, parents & grandparents.

At the end of the day, it comes back to what an individual emphasize in life. Some really walk the talk, and place emphasize in words & promises made; while some are the ones who just know how to talk.

It's really sweet to see how happy grandpa was when he saw me this afternoon. I shall remember his laughter forever.

And yea, this is what I seek for in life!

So not easy to be a responsible person rite?

Dream BIG!

Very often, people always feel too comfortable with their present situation that often makes them too reluctant to chase after their dreams.

The question 'IF' is always asked by all, example:
What IF I could not achieve my dreams?
What IF I fail?
What IF I am not good enough etc...

Everyday, there will be people discouraging u to achieve your dreams. Therefore, it's very important for you to PROTECT YOUR DREAM!

Just say this to yourself:

You live ONCE in life, ONLY ONCE! This is it, your ONLY OPPORTUNITY to give the best shot! If you don't appreciate this given opportunity, your DREAM will always remain a DREAM!

Your call, Your shot, Your decision...

LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO BE ORDINARY!!!