Sunday, November 28, 2010

The Meaning of LOVE

What LOVE really is? Hmm... A person willing to honor words and promises shared and sacrifice for another person. Give me an example of a TRULY LOVING COUPLE:

1) Mahathir and Siti Hasmah

Through tough and challenging times, they go through together as couple... Siti Hasmah always be by her husband side to give him support and take good care of him.

2) Anwar and Wan Azizah

Anwar's wife always standing and supporting her husband when her husband was in jail, and now the court case... She needs to take good care of her childrens, family and political party etc. She sacrificed everything without questioning her husband because she TRULY LOVES him very much!

3) Lim Guan Eng & wife
When Lim Guan Eng was in jail, again the wife be visiting him in jail and taking care of the children. She always make sure the family is in good care so her husband could venture his dream of transformaing Malaysia politcal culture.


That's what I mean by HONORING WORDS SAID & WILLING TO SACRIFICE FOR THE ONE YOU LOVE...

What they go through is really HARDSHIP, we are talking about the husband going to jail, being back stabbed by harsh words, life in danger etc... We are not talking about minor test, but major ones... and what really amazed and makes me feel admire is = THEY ARE WILLING TO GO THROUGH ALL CHALLENGES TOGETHER AS A COUPLE...

Of course they argued and quarreled many times, but give and take is key to any relationship. They make sure they be alright at the end:)

To me...

THAT IS WHAT LOVE IS ALL ABOUT... LOVE is not only those sweet words said during happy and sweet moments, but going through difficulties whether between them or external together... It is to see how far one is willing to sacrifice for another... that takes DEEP LOVE for it...

To me, that is the MEANING OF LOVE:)~^^

2 comments:

mynameisshobra said...

You might heard this trillion times in your life, or could be repeatedly shared in the church, but what love, what marriage means to Peter and I, that I would like to share with you, which is applicable to you or likewise, this is for you.

Colossians 3:12-19
Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.

Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom, and as you sing psalms, hymns and spiritual songs with gratitude in your hearts to God. And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.

Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.
Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.

P/S: no doubt it is very much about give and take, but remember too, wives need to be submit to the husbands, like wise, husbands ought to be gentle to their wives, just like Jesus. ;) good night!

Chi Wei said...

THanks Shora for your comment!
Appreciate it very much!

Well, I have never been harsh towards anybody physically, and never use bad or foul words towards anybody!

I only raise my voice if I am very angry sometimes. If that's harsh, I am sorry!

Have a nice night ya!