Happy SOUL!

1. I just came back from a contemporary stage show titled 'Madworld' featuring dance choreography, drama and music at DUMC (Damansara Utama Methodist Church).

2. What does it profit a man who gains the whole world but loses his very soul? This is what the show is all about.

3. This show started with a lovely young little girl as an angel hoping to bring awareness to people out there who only know how to make profit, partying and having fun whereby others are suffering. There is a bad guy in that show that always make a fun at that little young angel that she is dreaming. The world is selfish, the world only cares about war and making a fortune without benefiting others. A good example would be Christmas, many only knows how to party and have fun without knowing the real meaning of Christmas, they just do not bother about those who are suffering in pain, those who are begging for food, those in the hospital etc.

4. I agreed very much with it.

5. In economics, we learnt about 'distribution of resources'. In reality, do you really think there is free and fair distribution of income and other resources? The rich gets richer where the poor gets poorer.

6. Therefore, it's only right if those who are fortunate to have the capability to strive for success ie monetary to donate or help those unfortunate ones. With this that person soul shall be with joy.

7. Those who are lucky to be in a relationship, please appreciate and take good care of each other. See the good in a person and not judge him or her based on wealth, position, status etc. What is the point if a man who is very rich but slaps and beats his wife? The man soul is not with joy and happiness. Poor thing to the wife too.

8. The future is in our hands... Especially to youth out there, better not waste time on unneccessary matters. It is best if one uses his or her fullest potential to benefit others.

9. Isn't it wonderful to be financially secure and make a difference in others lives? Family would not quarrel over money matters, other unfortunate ones will be able to benefit from your help, the world be at peace and everyone is happy. Isn't that better than watching movies in cinema, partying and singing karaoke without learning and applying everything from it?

10. Having good personality, dignity, responsibility and most importantly TRUST in the LORD & GOD and surrender everything to GOD! What I want in my span of life is a legacy, a legacy that would benefit others and bring joy and meaningful experience to them.

11. Of course it would be a blessing if I have my family, wife and friends support along this challenging journey of realising dreams. It would be of great joy if I could travel the journey with YOU!

12. BEST OF LUCK MY FRIENDS:)

The Meaning of LOVE

What LOVE really is? Hmm... A person willing to honor words and promises shared and sacrifice for another person. Give me an example of a TRULY LOVING COUPLE:

1) Mahathir and Siti Hasmah

Through tough and challenging times, they go through together as couple... Siti Hasmah always be by her husband side to give him support and take good care of him.

2) Anwar and Wan Azizah

Anwar's wife always standing and supporting her husband when her husband was in jail, and now the court case... She needs to take good care of her childrens, family and political party etc. She sacrificed everything without questioning her husband because she TRULY LOVES him very much!

3) Lim Guan Eng & wife

When Lim Guan Eng was in jail, again the wife be visiting him in jail and taking care of the children. She always make sure the family is in good care so her husband could venture his dream of transformaing Malaysia politcal culture.

That's what I mean by HONORING WORDS SAID & WILLING TO SACRIFICE FOR THE ONE YOU LOVE...

What they go through is really HARDSHIP, we are talking about the husband going to jail, being back stabbed by harsh words, life in danger etc... We are not talking about minor test, but major ones... and what really amazed and makes me feel admire is = THEY ARE WILLING TO GO THROUGH ALL CHALLENGES TOGETHER AS A COUPLE...

Of course they argued and quarreled many times, but give and take is key to any relationship. They make sure they be alright at the end:)

To me...

THAT IS WHAT LOVE IS ALL ABOUT... LOVE is not only those sweet words said during happy and sweet moments, but going through difficulties whether between them or external together... It is to see how far one is willing to sacrifice for another... that takes DEEP LOVE for it...

To me, that is the MEANING OF LOVE:)~^^

You Shall Not Commit Adultery!

Why is GOD against adultery?

1. It breaks the most intimate of all human relationships (Gen. 2:24, 25).

As a loving couple, both hug/kiss/naked to enhance their love with each other. The couple felt no SHAME in doing so cause there is LOVE. And the LOVE here is only permitted to BOTH male and female as a COUPLE, not involving others!

2. It causes one to lose faith and trust in the other (Mal. 2:14)

When a relationship breaks down, it causes an effect to society. It breaks people's TRUST & BELIEF to other party.

3. It produces hurt, anger, bitterness and hatred. (cf. Gen. 39:19)

These are against the nature of healthy life. Life should be full of happiness and love. Those that cause hurt, anger, bitterness and hatred are not contributing to healthy living. Think about it!

4. Vows and words are no longer taken seriously. (Mt. 5:33-37; cf. Heb. 6:13,14)

What's the meaning of life when people do not believe one another words? It's like living life without a purpose. Life is meaningful when we honour our words, and people believe us in doing so!

Consequences of such an action:

1. Every move or plan of the spouse/gf/bf is under suspect because trust is lost

2. Both the feeling and the mind are now dramatically affected.

3. Children suffer enormously and unjustly.

Purpose of such a commandment

1. The gf & bf/marriage relationship must be treated with the highest regard (Heb. 13:4)

2. Friends/children/generation to come shall grow up with trust and respect and they will also take such a relationship in future seriously themselves.

3. That the sins of the parents are not passed on to their childen (Ex. 20:5)

4. Adultery is not just only commited in the physical act but it can also be in the mind and heart as well (Mt. 5: 27,28)

"You have heard that it was said, 'Do not commit adultery.' But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart (Mt. 5:27,28)

Tips for Healthy Relationship!

1) Truth = Tell no lies and believe each other

2) Transparency = Both could have a look at each other hp, laptop etc... nothing to hide

3) Time = Spend time with each other, the best would be at least once a week

Reasons for the 3'T

1) Truth = Both will believe and trust each other as a loving couple, both have faith that each wont cheat the other... so even if the girl go out with a guy friend, the bf/husband has nothing to worry about cause deep in his heart, he knows his gf/wife will not cheat on him!

2) Transparency = Both have confidence with their relationship. Both won't suspect each other when there is an incoming sms, call etc... Nothing to hide for that loving couple!

3) Time = Both able to treasure time spent with each other, and enhance the love bond relationship as a loving couple!

Conclusion

A PEACE OF MIND & HEART

&

A LOVING/MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIP

&

A HEALTHY LIFE

Gaining Momentum!

It's been a while since I wrote something here... Are u fine today? Wish you are readers...

Would say I am rather disappointed about myself, it's been a while since graduating from University and I have yet to be on track for something BIG, GREAT & MEANINGFUL! The word 'MOMENTUM' is what this guy needs now...

Played futsal game with fellow colleagues in the evening, would say that I played badly... My stamina sucks, gone are the days of being fit and able to last for the whole game. It's becoming worst thanks for not exercising for 5-6months.




Would say that the biggest struggle for me now is to balance my life really well. To do that, I gotta be POSITIVE. With that mindset, improvement in every important aspect of my life shall be realised.

It takes a lot of effort to 'GAIN MOMENTUM' and to be on track. I would say it's a matter of time to achieve that but I better get started to make that a reality. Till then, that's the life I am dreaming of...

A CHAMPION will NEVER QUIT... SHALL GO ALL OUT & CHASE THAT DREAM OF MINE!

SMILE :) :) :)

I AM ON THE MOVE RIGHT NOW FOLKS!

CHEERS,

~HAVE A NICE DAY~^^

Promise & Trust

Promise & Trust are interesting elements and something very wonderful, however it could be very fragile at the same time.

Parents trust their children for the promises made, and would therefore give them freedom to have fun with friends.

The same goes to a couple too... Both are in a relationship because both want to explore and experience life together, both want to share everything with their partner, both want to be together forever. Promises are made and both trust each other very much.

With that trust, both are 'attached' together, like a knot tied with each other little fingers (sounds familiar).

Things could be very sweet at the beginning, and it shall be challenging as time passes... The couple relationship will be put to test then... At that very moment, it's to see how both really love each other, and whether both are willing to uphold each other principle and honour all promises made, compromising comes in too.

If both really uphold all promises made, there is nothing that could separate them apart.

No matter how difficult things could be, everything could be solved if both really love each other and most importantly honour all promises made.

Responsibility comes in for the entire process, if one is responsible; surely one will behave well and respect the other partner. Things would work well this way. For example, behave well with other girls so the special one will not feel threaten etc... Of course, the same goes to the girl as well, to behave well with other guys.

It definitely takes more than LOVE in a relationship, it takes many sacrifices and many care for the one we love!

That's what TRUE LOVE is all about.

And lastly, I just want to look into your eyes and SINCERELY telling you this:

I LOVE YOU!

I REALLY DO!

What love really is?

'A moment like this,

Some people wait a lifetime,

For a moment like this,

Some people search forever,

For that one special kiss.

Ohh, I can't believe it's happening to me,

Some people wait a lifetime,

For a moment like this'

Well, guess the lyrics from the song 'A Moment Like This' by Leona Lewis explains it all. The special moment shared between two lovers is something so meaningful and is to be remembered forever with love!

Guess gentlemen does exist in this world these days, though the number may be little, but I certainly have high respect for them. They are the ones who really sacrifice their love towards the girl they love most.

Sometimes, I feel it's better not to go all out and get the person u love very much! It's better to give the girl freedom to make choices. Yes, I agree it will be a risk, because the girl may choose others that show more actions.

Well, it's worth it to take this risk simply because I feel a person actions are not to be judged by a short period only, it should be based on the long period. GUess it will only be a GOOD LOVE when a guy treats the girl well all these while, and not only to a short period when the guy sees an opportunity to win over her heart.

It will be a ROMANTIC LOVE if the girl chooses you because she really loves you, and not based on other factors like wealth, status etc... Giving a girl freedom to make choices actually gives her time to make a good decision, so she won't regret later. If a guy really loves her, surely he wants her to live happily ever after rite? and for her to realize her princess dream, and to make her fairy tale dreams she believed since a little girl to be a reality.

That is what I called LOVE...

A guy who really cares for her,

who is willing to sacrifice anything for her,

to be there whenever she feels sad,

to make her feel that she is the luckiest girl of all,

that treasures all moments shared with her since the 1st day they knew each other,

and most importantly,

a guy who gives her a kiss wholeheartedly...

Responsibility!

Just came back from Johor for CHing Ming. I missed Ching Ming last Sunday because I have weekend classes last week, so yea...I have no excuse to skip Ching Ming this week since it's always MEANINGFUL to pay respect to my ancestors and dear ones!

I am more of a person who goes back to the basics of life. I wouldn't have been around in this wonderful world without my ancestors. Besides, it's also a sign of appreciation to my dear ones who have passed away, it's also an appreciation towards their love & care they showerd upon me, parents & grandparents.

At the end of the day, it comes back to what an individual emphasize in life. Some really walk the talk, and place emphasize in words & promises made; while some are the ones who just know how to talk.

It's really sweet to see how happy grandpa was when he saw me this afternoon. I shall remember his laughter forever.

And yea, this is what I seek for in life!

So not easy to be a responsible person rite?

Dream BIG!

Very often, people always feel too comfortable with their present situation that often makes them too reluctant to chase after their dreams.

The question 'IF' is always asked by all, example:
What IF I could not achieve my dreams?
What IF I fail?
What IF I am not good enough etc...

Everyday, there will be people discouraging u to achieve your dreams. Therefore, it's very important for you to PROTECT YOUR DREAM!

Just say this to yourself:

You live ONCE in life, ONLY ONCE! This is it, your ONLY OPPORTUNITY to give the best shot! If you don't appreciate this given opportunity, your DREAM will always remain a DREAM!

Your call, Your shot, Your decision...

LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO BE ORDINARY!!!

Chinese-Strive forward!

1. I feel very shameful to be a Chinese at this very moment simply because of the battle within MCA. As a Chinese, I were taught to be in peaceful terms with people, and walk the talk.

2. Sadly, some leaders in this country do not practice that. Some decided to leave their 'captain' when the ship is sinking. This is very sad as the captain will now need to battle it out on his/her own.

3. As a human being, we should support people who has INTEGRITY & HONESTY! Salute to the person who has the courage to stand firm on his/her words!

4. I feel bad too because I definitely feel we should do something for the country future. And not talking about the problem only. There should be some effort and initiative to make things happen. Of course, it has to be in line with good moral values.

5. SUPPORT YOU ALWAYS! Because you simply did something great for the nation.

Making a decision based on several choices!

1. A church pastor in Sg. Petani shared a topic about making decision with fellow church members. I am HAPPY to listen to his sharings which I find very meaningful.

2. The pastor says that human being is able to commit crime or do something unethical because he or she can make decision, and that decision is made based on several choices. Some choices are good, while some are bad ones. It is also very natural for human being to make unthical decision because naturally human being is selfish and may be evil. If a person is not strong in principle, and does not practice good teachings by GOD, then I would say it's natural for him or her to make bad decisions.

3. So we must be careful in making a decision, of course we have to make sure the choices available to us are correct in the first place.

4. Sometimes there are just people forcing us to make bad decision, but no matter what, we have to make sure that our move will benefit mankind & the environment in the end. It may be painful in the beginning, but it may be meaningful at the end!

5. May our GOOD LORD & GOD help us in our daily lives, may we practice good faith in making ethical & meaningful decision in our life. Of course, we shall be proud of ourselves in making that brave decision.

SMILE EVERYONE & BE HAPPY EVERYDAY!

The Winner Takes It All!

1. This song means a lot to me, just love the lyrics very much... Very meaningful! Dedicate this song to people who treasure LOVE & FRIENDSHIP! and to people who has lost their loved ones!

I don't wanna talk
About the things we've gone through
Though it's hurting me
Now it's history
I've played all my cards
And that's what you've done too
Nothing more to say
No more ace to play

The winner takes it all
The loser standing small
Beside the victory
That's her destiny

I was in your arms
Thinking I belonged there
I figured it made sense
Building me a fence
Building me a home
Thinking I'd be strong there
But I was a fool
Playing by the rules

The gods may throw a dice
Their minds as cold as ice
And someone way down here
Loses someone dear
The winner takes it all
The loser has to fall
It's simple and it's plain
Why should I complain.

But tell me does she kiss
Like I used to kiss you?
Does it feel the same
When she calls your name?
Somewhere deep inside
You must know I miss you
But what can I say
Rules must be obeyed

The judges will decide
The likes of me abide
Spectators of the show
Always staying low
The game is on again
A lover or a friend
A big thing or a small
The winner takes it all

I don't wanna talk
If it makes you feel sad
And I understand
You've come to shake my hand
I apologize
If it makes you feel bad
Seeing me so tense
No self-confidence
But you see
The winner takes it all
The winner takes it all...

Like in business,
THE WINNER TAKES IT ALL!

THE LOSER STANDING SMALL!

NEVER GIVE UP THOUGH!

Heal The World!

1. Things may turn bad in this country, at least 3 churches were attack yesterday. Are we moving forward towards 1Malaysia concept? I wonder...

2. Couldn't we just learn from incidents in the past that jeopardise our relationship with other races? Are we being that stupid to repeat everything once again? Guess all of us should think deeply about it, especially the "attackers"!

3. What we need in this country is unity, the bond that unite us together to achieve greater success. We are far from reaching Vision 2020 and to be on a level playing field with other developed nations. Couldn't we just focus on achieving that VISION?

4. We waste too much time politicking with one another, all of us are responsible for the country development, all of us are responsible for our future generation!

5. It's a food for thought for every individual in this country. May we remain calm and take some time to think deeply about it.

Are we helping one another to progress further?

or

Are we just wasting time on matters that are not meaningful?

THINK ABOUT IT...

May listen to Michael Jackson 'Heal The World'

MAY GOD BLESS US ALL!!!